Spare Kind

Spare Kind

A safe for your people.

Doodle-style stickers, planner pages and fair little tools for you and your chosen family. Kind to your wallet, and kind to your privacy.

New

Stickers, planner pages and journals

Undated pages and doodle-style stickers for iPad and Apple Pencil, plus pride wallpapers. Each is an instant download. A new themed set comes out on the 1st of every month. They're designed with code and AI tools, and checked by a person before they go up.

For your planner

Planner Sheets$5Weekly, daily and monthly sheets with no dates printed. Landscape and portrait.
Journal Pages$5Little reflections, a reading log, a game log and a free page.
Blossom Locket Digital Stickers$314 pride locket stickers as transparent PNGs for GoodNotes and other apps.

For your screens

Pride Locket Wallpapers$440 wallpapers in 10 flags, light and dark, for phone and desktop.
Wallpapers + Stickers bundle$6Both locket packs together, for $1 less.

The tools

Money tools that settle things fairly

Each one is $3, works in Google Sheets and Excel, opens with an example already filled in, and uses status words as well as colors, so it works for colorblind folks too. No sign-up, and nothing you type goes anywhere.

Bill splitting

Fair Split$3Shared household bills, split evenly, by income or by custom shares. Shows who owes whom.
Roommate Bill Splitter & Chore Chart$3Fair Split plus a chore rotation for shared apartments.
Group Trip Splitter$3Up to 10 travelers. Pick who's in on each cost.
Group Gift Splitter$3Who's chipped in, who still owes, who signed the card.
Move-In Cost Splitter$3Deposit, first rent and furniture, split evenly or by room size.
Utility Bill Splitter$3Prorates bills by the days each roommate actually lived there.

Saving money

Subscription Audit$3The true yearly cost of every subscription, and what cutting saves.
Free Trial & Return Tracker$3Return windows, trials, rebates and warranties count down on their own.
Grocery Price Book$3Compare four stores and see when a staple hits your stock-up price.
Financial Aid Offer Comparison$3Sorts every aid letter into free, earned and borrowed money, and shows each school's real price.

In season

Friendsgiving Fair Split Pack$3Guest list, diet check, potluck board, timeline and cost split.
Holiday Gift Budget & Shared Gift Splitter$3A budget per person, shared gifts, and who owes whom.
Secret Santa Organizer$3Draws names, keeps couples apart, collects wish lists and makes match cards.
Holiday Cost Splitter$3Cabin weekends and family dinners, with share sizes so kids can pay half.

All 14 tools, about $1.07 each.

Roommate, trip, gift, move-in and utility splitters.

Subscriptions, returns, groceries and gift budget.

Gift budget, Secret Santa and Holiday Cost Splitter.

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In the works

Three apps, coming to iPhone and iPad

Foundkin

Find your people

A private check-in and resource app for LGBTQ+ folks. Track how you're doing, breathe, journal, and find inclusive gyms, clubs and outdoor groups.

  • No account. Your check-ins and journal stay on your phone.
  • Discreet mode and a Hide button, free for everyone.
  • Built for VoiceOver, larger text and vibration cues.

Coming soon

Tablekind

Can't decide what to eat?

Tell Tablekind your diet, budget and how far you'll go. It picks a recipe, a grocery store or a place to eat, and opens it in the maps app you choose.

  • Diet and allergy filters are always free.
  • SNAP/EBT grocery search and a big-text cook mode.
  • Little Fork is free. Big Fork removes ads and adds every recipe, or pay once for life.

Coming soon

Sill

Never miss a deadline that costs you

Return windows, free trials, price-drop windows, rebates and warranties in one list, counted down, with a reminder before each one closes.

  • No account. Everything stays on your phone.
  • Ten open windows and reminders, free.
  • No ads, ever.

Coming in 2027

The Spare Kind Promise

We treat you like friends and family

Every app and file we make is checked against these rules before it ships.

Free means useful

Free versions work on their own. Paying adds more. It never fixes something we broke on purpose.

No tricks at checkout

Full prices before you tap Buy, a reminder before any trial ends, and a plain "Not now" that works the first time.

Your stuff stays yours

Stop paying and nothing you made gets deleted or locked. We never sell your data.

Quiet by default

Notifications and streaks start off. Missing a day is a fresh start, never a loss.

Ads stay in their lane

At most one labeled ad per screen, never during a task, a check-in or anything health-related.

It just works

Quick, clear screens. When something we rely on fails, the app hides it and keeps your work safe.

When your trust and our money pull in different directions, trust wins.

Read all 23 rules

Money

  1. The free version is genuinely useful on its own. Paying adds more; it never fixes something we broke on purpose.
  2. Prices are shown in full before anyone taps Buy, including what happens when a trial ends.
  3. Every trial offers a reminder before it ends, and cancelling is explained in plain words, right where people pay.
  4. Every paywall has a plain "Not now" that works the first time. No guilt-trip wording.
  5. If someone stops paying, nothing they made or saved gets deleted or locked. They keep read access to all of it.
  6. A pay-once option sits beside every subscription where it's reasonable.
  7. Sales are real. The crossed-out price is the real price, and there are no fake countdowns or "only 2 left."
  8. Tips and donations are optional and unlock nothing, and people can hide the tip button.

Attention

  1. Optional notifications, streaks and reminders start off. When reminders are the whole point of an app, the phone asks permission first. Either way, the person picks the timing and can turn them off in one tap.
  2. Missing a day never resets progress to zero in a shaming way. Keep the best, and say "fresh start" instead of "you lost it."
  3. At most one labeled ad per screen, never inside a step-by-step flow, check-in, journal or crisis resource. Paying removes them.
  4. No pop-ups on launch except a skippable welcome the first time. No "rate us" prompts that interrupt.
  5. Celebrations, sounds, vibration and motion respect the phone's settings, and each one can be turned off.

Privacy and safety

  1. No accounts unless a feature truly needs one. Data stays on the device by default.
  2. No selling data, and sponsors get nothing about users. Foundkin never tracks. Other apps may use ad tracking, but they ask permission first and work fully if someone says no.
  3. Notifications never reveal sensitive content, and discreet options are free.
  4. Upgrade prompts never appear on hard moments: low moods, crisis resources, or anything health-related.

Products

  1. Every file works fully on its own. Nothing expires or phones home.
  2. If a file doesn't work for someone, we fix it or refund it.
  3. Our name and cross-sells stay quiet: one mention where it helps, never on every page.

Experience

  1. Excellent UX is a core value. Every screen is quick, clear and works the first time.
  2. Ads and offers never interrupt a task, never shift what someone is about to tap, and never start sound on their own.
  3. If something we depend on fails, the app degrades gently: hide the broken piece, keep the person's work, and never leave them stuck.

Privacy policy

What we collect, and what we don't

Draft for legal review. Last updated October 31, 2026. Foundkin and Tablekind are not released yet; their sections describe how they are being built.

The short version

  • We never sell your data.
  • We don't run our own servers that hold your information. What you make stays on your device or in files you control.
  • Foundkin collects nothing and never tracks you.
  • Tablekind shows ads through Google AdMob. Ads are personalized only if you say yes when your iPhone asks.

Spreadsheets from the shop

Our spreadsheet files contain no tracking, no scripts that send data, and no links that report back. What you type stays in your copy of the file. When you buy, the store you buy from (Etsy) handles your order, payment and email under its own privacy policy. We receive what that store shares with sellers, such as your name and order details, and use it only to deliver and support your order.

This website

This site has no cookies, no analytics and no ad trackers. It loads its two fonts from Google Fonts, so Google receives your IP address when the page loads; we plan to host the fonts ourselves. If you change the Display settings, your choices are saved only in your own browser and never sent to us. Our web host may keep standard server logs, such as IP addresses, for security, under its own policy.

Foundkin

Data collected: none. Foundkin has no account and no Foundkin servers.

  • Your check-ins, journal, name and pronouns are stored only on your device, protected by iOS data protection.
  • Exports and backups go only where you send them. Encrypted backups use a passphrase only you know.
  • Reminders are scheduled on your phone and never include your mood or journal text.
  • Links to Apple Maps, MapQuest and outside organizations open their own app or website. Foundkin sends them nothing about you, and their own privacy policies apply once you're there.
  • Sponsor cards are plain links. Sponsors receive no information from Foundkin, including no counts of views or taps.
  • Purchases go through Apple. We never see your payment details.
  • "Erase everything" in the You tab deletes all Foundkin data on your device.

Tablekind

Tablekind keeps your filters, favorites and lists on your device. We don't keep them on our servers, and we never sell them.

Location

If you allow it, Tablekind uses your location on your device to find nearby stores and restaurants through Apple's map search. We don't store your location. Apple's privacy policy covers its map service.

Ads

The free plan, Little Fork, shows ads from Google AdMob. Your iPhone asks whether Tablekind may track you for ads.

  • If you say yes, AdMob uses your device's advertising identifier and app activity to show ads that fit you better.
  • If you say no, you still see ads, but not personalized ones. AdMob may still collect limited device and network information to deliver ads, limit repeats and prevent fraud.
  • You can change your answer any time in iPhone Settings, Privacy & Security, Tracking.
  • Big Fork and the one-time "Remove ads" purchase turn ads off completely.

Google's handling of ad data is described in How Google uses information from sites or apps that use its services.

Your choices

  • Delete app data by deleting the app, or with each app's erase option.
  • Manage subscriptions and tracking permission in iPhone Settings.
  • Depending on where you live, you may have rights to access, delete or opt out of the sale or sharing of personal data. Contact us and we'll help.

Children

Our apps and files are not directed to children under 13, and we don't knowingly collect information from them.

Contact

See the Support page. If this policy changes, we'll update the date at the top and note what changed.

Terms of use

The fine print, in plain words

Draft for legal review. Last updated October 31, 2026.

Spreadsheets and digital files

  • You may use each file for yourself and your household, and make copies for your own use.
  • Please don't resell or share the files themselves. Sharing a finished spreadsheet with the people in it, like your roommates, is fine.
  • Files are digital downloads. Nothing is shipped.
  • If a file doesn't work for you, contact us and we'll fix it or refund it.

Apps

  • Apple's standard App Store terms apply to our apps.
  • Subscriptions renew automatically until you cancel. Cancel any time in iPhone Settings, your name, Subscriptions, at least 24 hours before the renewal date to avoid the next charge.
  • One-time purchases, like Foundkin Plus for life or Tablekind's Remove ads, restore on your other devices through Restore Purchases.
  • If you stop paying, you keep read access to everything you made or saved.

Health and safety

Foundkin is for wellbeing, not medical care. It doesn't diagnose or treat anything. Check with a doctor or therapist before making health decisions. In an emergency, call your local emergency number. In the US you can call or text 988 any time.

Tablekind's diet and allergy filters help you narrow choices, but always check ingredients and ask restaurants directly if you have a serious allergy.

Outside links

We link to organizations, maps and stores we don't run. Their terms and accuracy are their own.

No guarantees

We work hard to make everything reliable, but our files and apps are provided as they are, and we can't promise they'll be error-free. Our responsibility is limited to the amount you paid.

Changes

If these terms change, we'll update the date above.

Support

How can we help?

Contact: message us through the shop where you bought your file. We answer every message, usually within two days.

Spreadsheets

How do I open my file in Google Sheets?

In Google Sheets, choose File, then Import, then Upload, and pick the .xlsx file. Choose "Create new spreadsheet."

Which apps does it work in?

Excel 2016 or newer, Microsoft 365, the free Excel web app, and Google Sheets. Apple Numbers opens it, but some dropdowns show as plain cells.

Where do I type?

Type only in the yellow cells. Everything else fills in by itself. The example rows show how it works; replace them with your own.

Something looks wrong or won't calculate.

Message us with the file name and a screenshot. We'll fix it or refund you.

Foundkin

Where is my data stored?

Only on your device. There's no account and no Foundkin server, so we can't see or recover your data. Use Export in the You tab to keep a backup.

How do I move to a new phone?

On your old phone, open You, choose Encrypted backup, and export it. On the new phone, open You, then Restore, and pick the file. You'll need your passphrase.

What do Discreet mode and Hide do?

Discreet mode shows "Notebook" in the app and hides its colors. Hide switches straight to the Notes app. Both are free.

How do I cancel Plus?

Open iPhone Settings, tap your name, then Subscriptions, then Foundkin. You keep read access to everything you made.

I need to talk to someone now.
  • 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: call or text 988
  • The Trevor Project, for LGBTQ+ young people: call 1-866-488-7386 or text START to 678-678
  • Trans Lifeline: call 877-565-8860

In an emergency, call your local emergency number.

Tablekind

Why does Tablekind ask to track me?

Little Fork is free because of ads. Saying yes lets our ad partner, Google AdMob, show ads about food you'd like. Saying no still shows ads, just not personalized ones. Everything works the same either way, and you can change it in iPhone Settings, Privacy & Security, Tracking.

How do I get rid of ads?

Upgrade to Big Fork, or buy Remove ads once.

How do I cancel Big Fork?

Open iPhone Settings, tap your name, then Subscriptions, then Tablekind. Your saved favorites and lists stay readable after you cancel.

Can I trust the allergy filters?

They narrow your choices, but always check ingredients, and ask restaurants directly if your allergy is serious.

Guides

Money talks, made easier

Short, practical guides to the money conversations people dread. Each one works on its own; if you'd rather not do the math by hand, it links to the $3 spreadsheet that does it for you. If a guide ever includes affiliate links, it says so at the top; see our disclosure.

How to split rent fairly when incomes differ

When one person earns a lot more, splitting rent 50/50 can leave the other person broke every month. Splitting by income fixes that: each person pays the same share of their pay, not the same dollar amount.

The three fair ways to split

MethodHow it worksBest when
EvenEveryone pays the same amountIncomes are close, or rooms are equal and nobody wants to share pay info
By incomeEach person pays in proportion to what they earnCouples, or roommates with very different pay
By room or customYou agree on shares (for example 50 / 30 / 20)One room is bigger, has its own bathroom, or someone is home far more

Splitting by income, step by step

  1. Add up everyone's monthly take-home pay. Example: Robin $3,200 + Kai $2,000 + Dee $1,200 = $6,400.
  2. Work out each person's share: Robin 3,200 ÷ 6,400 = 50%, Kai 31.25%, Dee 18.75%.
  3. Multiply the rent by each share. On $2,100 rent: Robin $1,050, Kai $656.25, Dee $393.75.
  4. Use the same shares for utilities and internet, or split those evenly. Agree on it once and write it down.

Everyone in that example pays 32.8% of their pay toward rent. That's the point: the same burden, not the same bill.

Talk about it before it gets awkward

  • Decide what counts as income. Take-home pay is usually fairest; it already accounts for taxes.
  • Check in when things change. New job, lost hours, a raise: redo the math.
  • Keep a running log. Most money fights between roommates are about who paid what and when, not the split. One shared record ends that.
  • Groceries are different. Shared staples can follow the rent split; personal food is personal.

The Fair Split spreadsheet does all of this: split each cost evenly, by income or custom, log who paid, and see exactly who owes whom. Living with roommates? The Roommate Edition adds a chore rotation. $3 each, and nothing you type is sent anywhere.

Written with help from AI tools and checked by a human.

Secret Santa when half the group are couples

Couples drawing each other ruins Secret Santa: they were already buying each other gifts, so someone ends up with a surprise that isn't one. The fix is simple. Put people who already swap gifts into a "group," and make sure nobody draws from their own group.

Set it up in five minutes

  1. List everyone taking part.
  2. Mark the groups. Couples, housemates, siblings who exchange anyway. Most people won't be in one, and that's fine.
  3. Set one budget and say it out loud. Pick an amount the person with the tightest budget is comfortable with.
  4. Collect quick wish lists: a few likes, sizes, and one "please no" (no more mugs, no scented candles, allergies).
  5. Draw names so everyone gives one gift and gets one, and nobody draws themselves or their own group.

Why a hat doesn't work

With groups, pulling names from a hat fails often: someone draws their partner, and you start over, again and again. Worse, the last person can get stuck with only their own name left. A drawing method that arranges everyone in a single loop (A buys for B, B buys for C, and so on back to A) solves both problems at once.

Keep it fun and fair

  • Allow one swap, privately, through the organizer, if someone draws a person they barely know.
  • Remote friends: agree on mailing deadlines, or switch to gift cards for them.
  • Organizer playing too? Have a friend run the draw, or send each person their match without looking.

The Secret Santa Organizer handles up to 20 people, keeps groups apart automatically, collects wish lists, and makes a card for each person to print or text privately. $3.

Written with help from AI tools and checked by a human.

How to split a cabin or Airbnb weekend, kids and all

Group trips go sideways over money when one person books the cabin, another buys groceries, someone skips the ski day, and the kids eat half as much. Splitting everything evenly feels unfair; tracking every receipt by hand is exhausting. Share sizes solve it.

Give everyone a share size

  • 1 for each adult there the whole time
  • 0.5 for a kid, or an adult there half the weekend
  • 0 for a baby or a guest someone else is covering

A shared cost is split by those sizes. In a group of four adults and one kid, the total share is 4.5, so the kid's part of the cabin is 0.5 ÷ 4.5 of the cost.

Not everything is for everyone

Some costs are only for some people: the wine, the lift tickets, the spa morning. Split those only among the people who used them, still by share size. Everything else (the cabin, groceries, gas) goes to the whole group.

A worked example

Four adults and a kid rent a cabin for two nights:

CostAmountWho it's for
Cabin$480.00Everyone
Groceries$162.40Everyone
Gas$58.00Everyone
Wine and cocktails$64.00The four adults
Ski lift tickets$210.00Three adults
Total$974.40

Each adult who did everything owes $241.64, the adult who skipped skiing owes $171.64, and the kid's share is $77.82, usually covered by their parent. Then subtract what each person already paid, and you know who owes whom.

Settle up without the awkwardness

  • Agree on the rules before the trip, especially share sizes for kids and part-timers.
  • One person logs every cost the same day, with a photo of the receipt.
  • Pay the person owed the most first. It usually takes fewer payments.

The Holiday Cost Splitter does all of the above for up to 10 people and 60 costs, with share sizes, "only these people" costs, and who owes whom. $3.

Written with help from AI tools and checked by a human.

Hosting Friendsgiving on a budget, without anyone overpaying

The host usually ends up paying the most: the main dish, the drinks, the paper plates and the last-minute ice run. A potluck fixes most of it, but only if it's organized. Otherwise you get five pies, no sides, and a vegan guest with nothing to eat.

1. Collect RSVPs and diets first

Ask two things: are you coming, and is there anything you can't eat? Write down vegetarian, vegan, gluten-free, dairy-free and nut allergies. That list shapes the whole menu.

2. Assign courses, not just "bring something"

A balanced spread for about 8 to 10 people: 2 mains (one plant-based), 3 sides, 1 salad, 1 bread, 2 desserts and drinks. Let people claim dishes, so you can see the gaps before the day, not during dinner.

3. Check that every diet is covered

Every guest should have at least two dishes they can eat, including one main. Label dishes on the table. For nut allergies, keep serving spoons separate.

4. Shop smart for the host's part

  • Compare two stores for the big items. Turkey, butter and produce prices can differ a lot between stores in the same week.
  • A turkey breast (5 to 6 lb, bone-in) feeds 8 to 10, costs less up front than a big whole bird, and roasts in about 2 hours.
  • Make the plant-based main yourself (a lentil and mushroom shepherd's pie works for vegan, vegetarian and gluten-free guests at once).

5. Split the costs fairly

Log what everyone spent, including the host's groceries. Add it up, divide by the number of people chipping in, and see who's over and who's under. People who brought a dish often owe little or nothing; the host usually gets money back.

The Friendsgiving Fair Split Pack has RSVPs, a potluck board, a diet check, a two-store grocery list, a day-of timeline and the cost split. $3.

Written with help from AI tools and checked by a human.

Comparing financial aid offers: find each school's real price

Aid letters all look different on purpose. Some put loans next to grants as if they were the same thing. One number cuts through all of it: the net price, meaning what you'd actually pay for a year.

Net price = total cost of attendance minus grants and scholarships. Loans don't go in the subtraction. A loan is a bill you pay later, with interest, not a discount.

Step 1: Get the full cost, not just tuition

Cost of attendance includes tuition and fees, housing, food, books, transportation and personal costs. If a letter only lists tuition, look up the full cost of attendance on the school's financial aid page and use that.

Step 2: Sort every line into one of three buckets

  • Free money: grants and scholarships. These come off the price.
  • Earned money: work-study. You only get it if you land a job and work the hours, so don't count it as a discount.
  • Borrowed money: federal loans, Parent PLUS loans, private loans. These do not lower the price.

Step 3: Do the subtraction for each school

Put the schools side by side. The school with the biggest award isn't always the cheapest; the one with the lowest net price is.

Step 4: Ask whether the money comes back next year

A big first-year scholarship that disappears in year two can make a "cheap" school expensive. For every grant and scholarship, ask: Does it renew every year? Is there a GPA or credit-hour requirement to keep it? Does it go up if tuition goes up?

Step 5: Ask the aid office, politely, if the offer can change

If your family's money situation has changed, or another school offered more, you can ask for a review. The worst answer is no.

Dates to check

The 2027–28 FAFSA is open now. The federal deadline is far off, but schools and states often hand out grant money first come, first served, with priority dates much earlier. Check studentaid.gov and each school's aid page for this year's dates.

The Financial Aid Comparison sheet sorts each line into the right bucket, does the net-price math side by side, and has a Questions to Ask tab with the renewal questions above, ready to bring to the aid office. $3.

Written with help from AI and checked against studentaid.gov. Rules change, so confirm details with each school's financial aid office.

Affiliate disclosure

How we make money, plainly

Last updated November 1, 2026.

What we sell

Most links on this site go to our own spreadsheets on Etsy. When you buy one, Spare Kind gets the money, minus Etsy's fees.

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AI tools

Our stickers, planner pages, spreadsheets and guides are made with help from AI tools and checked by a person before they go up.

Questions

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